Monthly Archives: March 2008

Chapter Eight* The First Kiss

This is the story of how my husband and I met, got engaged, and were married within 8 months…

…and lived happily ever after*

Well, several of you were not impressed with how I left the ending of my last post… haha! I was sorely tempted to maybe just it be for a week or so and see what you thought… :) Before I begin this entry though, I’m curious… for those of you who are reading, are you enjoying it? Am I posting about it too frequently? Should I space out these entries? I’d love to know your thoughts– I’d hate to think I was boring you to tears!!
So, I invited him inside… and he said yes. Luckily all of my roommates were either in their rooms or were out for the night, so we had the living room to ourselves. It was already quite late, so I didn’t expect him to stay long. But we sat down on the couch to talk and I flipped on the TV for background noise. Over the next half an hour or so we slowly moved closer together so that first we were close… then our knees were touching… then his arm was around me and and he pulled me close. Even though I pretended to play it cool, I was positively dancing inside. I can still remember how my stomach was flip flopping and was absolutely FULL of butterflies as he pulled me close into his chest. We sat like this and flipped through the channels trying to find something fun to watch, but obviously as it was after midnight there was nothing good on. We finally found some terrible movie (that I later learned was Midnight Run) and only half paid attention.

My mind was spinning… we were cuddling, holding hands and had just had the most perfect date… would he try and kiss me? Would he think I was a hussy if I let him? Should I let him? What if he doesn’t? What if he only wants NCMO? (**Non Committal Make-Out… hahahaha) I didn’t know what to think.

When it became clear that neither of us were interested in the movie, we sat and talked quietly about this and that. We were sitting side by side and I was half curled up in his arm and chest. I turned to face him for a minute and he came in for a kiss and caught me off guard…

…and missed.

Before I understood what he was doing I had moved my head and instead of my mouth he ended up kissing my chin. It was so cute and sweet (and a little funny) that I decided not to be a prude and to let him try again and we had the most amazing first kiss… it was one of those head-in-the-clouds-heart-pounding-knees-melting-toes tingling kisses that you wait your whole life for. He held me tightly and kissed me again and I knew I was done for… he had me: hook, line, and sinker.

He didn’t stay much longer after that as he had to work early the next morning, so we walked to my doorway and he took me in his arms one more time, and then he was gone. I’m pretty sure I stood standing in my doorway with the BIGGEST smile on my face for the next few minutes before waltzing back into my little house. If you have ever seen My Fair Lady, the scene where Eliza is dancing and singing “I Could Have Danced All Night” pretty much sums up my reaction.

As I climbed into bed (absolutely wide awake) my mind replayed the events of the evening… the perfect dinner, our first dance together, our first KISS… my heart started racing all over again. He certainly acted like he liked me… and from what I had seen he was a very genuine person. But I, being a woman, still had a shed of self-doubt… what if he doesn’t call?

And so, after my heart stopped beating a million miles a minute I fell asleep replaying the kiss over in my mind…

And then I waited for him to call…

Shop Girl*


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And it just keeps coming…

The sky is vomiting. Again.

It started to snow around 2pm this afternoon and it has not let up since. And I’m not talking about little tiny flakes that don’t stay on the ground, I’m talking about Christmas snow–you know, the MASSIVE swirling flakes that cover anything and everything they touch. It is beautiful in December… not so much in late March. There is already about an inch and a half of snow on top of my little table on my balcony just from this afternoon. *sigh* Oh Spring, where art thou?

Last year I posted an entry about my love / hate relationship with spring. Even though it isn’t my most favourite of seasons, I would give annnnything to see real spring. The warm-weather-no-snow-wet-sidewalks-grass-growing kind of spring. At this rate we won’t see it before July. Again, *sigh*.

The past few days have been gloriously sunny. Chilly, but sunny. I’ve been enjoying watching the massive snowbanks that surround the entire perimeter of our parking lot slowly go down… I almost felt like I was getting a glimpse of a mini-ice age as the banks slowly receded by a inch or so each day revealing more pavement.

Today, they became mountains again. Oh SPRING! Where art thou?

Shop Girl*

Chapter Seven* The First Date

This is the story of how my husband and I met, got engaged, and were married within 8 months…

…and lived happily ever after*

The morning after the concussion, Bo Bandy decided that he felt fine enough to drive, so we all headed back to the city. I looked hotter than EVER– as the stay over was impromptu, I had no change of clothes, no contact case, etc etc… based on my looks for the evening / morning, it really is amazing that he ever asked me out. haha!!

Once the Hubster left to go home and I was back in my little residence room I did what most girls do… I started to reflect on the previous evening. I was entirely unsure of how things had gone… the ski trip was an utter disaster, but talking and laughing all night long had been absolutely fabulous. Before leaving he had promised to call later in the week, and despite his perfect track record for calling when he said that he would, I was still unsure of where things were going. So, I waited.

One day passed.

Two days passed.

…almost. On Wednesday night he called! AND, he asked me out. Despite abandoning him on a ski hill by himself for hours on end, he decided to give me one more try!!! He asked me if I would have dinner with him that Friday evening before the dance I had planned on going to. (Obviously I said yes without hesitation)

When Friday night arrived I was determined to look FABULOUS to make up for my bush-woman-Green-Giant ski trip appearance. I put on my favourite faded jeans with a white t-shirt and a wicked mauvey-pink knitted shawl. I also wore my pink stiletto books (which I later learned he didn’t enjoy) and wore my hair curly (which I later learned that he LOVES). He arrived looking better than I did… he was wearing this amazing blue and white collared shirt, nice jeans and great shoes with a leather jacket. MMmm mmm mm. We walked out to his car where he opened the door for me (as he did with all doors that evening) and he drove me to Swiss Chalet.

**I need to add in a little side note here: on one of our previous conversations we had talked somewhat about food and our likes and dislikes. I apparently told him that I preferred chicken to beef, and so he decided to take me somewhere where I would have a number of wonderful entrées to choose from. How cute is he?!?!

We we arrived at the restaurant and had a wonnnderful dinner together. There were no awkward pauses in the conversation and he was charming and funny. When it came time for dessert, the waitress brought us a menu, and he selected a giant ice cream sundae. The waitress then cleverly asked if we would like two spoons. The Hubs responded “Sure!” with a smile, and the waitress turned to confirm with me that this would be ok. (Like I would ever have a problem with that… sharing a hot sundae with an incredibly hot man?? Hubble hubble ding ding!!!) So we shared our sundae and it was SO cute. I felt like I was back in a 1950s ice cream parlor. :)

After dinner we walked back out to his car, and I can still remember the first song that came on the radio when he turned it on. It was “Somebody Told Me” by the Killers, and it was the first time I ever heard it. It ignited a temporary obsession with them shortly after. haha! We drove into the city and went to the dance. Once we got there I wasn’t sure what would happen… we hadn’t established anything about what we were or if we even wanted people to know that we had been on a date. We walked in together, then shortly after he found Too Kool and some of his friends, and I found my Telly. Obviously I poured my guts out to her about how I was on a date with the most amaaaazing guy and she spent the evening trying to get to know him a bit. We danced like crazies and had a marvelous time.

Eventually, the DJ played a slower song and as Telly ran off to find someone to dance with, I scanned the room for the Hubster. As an attractive, single, well-dressed man he was sure to attract several proposals to dance, so I wanted to be sneaky and get in there first. I spotted him across the room and made my way over to where he was and asked him if he would dance with me. He smiled, and I took his hand and we walked onto the floor. I can’t remember what song was playing, but I doubt that I was listening anyway. He held me close and I could smell his amazing cologne. We danced every dance together that night and he even held my hand. I felt like I was 12 again but it was exhilarating knowing that this amazing guy seemed to be interested in ME and didn’t care if other people saw it! It’s safe to say that I was dancing on cloud nine that night. :)

The night couldn’t have been any more perfect. The dinner was lovely and the dance was incredible! Afterwards he drove me home and walked me to my door. We stood and talked for a bit, but it was really cold so I debated whether or not I should invite him in for a minute. I bit the bullet and decided to ask, and he said…

…stay tuned for chapter 8. :) Same bat time, same bat channel! haha

Shop Girl*


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Easter Nachos*

I’ve had a relatively busy day, but I wanted to write a quick update before I embark on my essay for the evening (due tomorrow). Luckily it’s only 4 pages (so it’s really more like a paragraph) and it’s on poetry which is fairly easy to analyze. It might be a late night though. :)

Church was… interesting. The talks were focused on the Saviour and on the atonement which was really nice. The last one was a touch long (the meeting ran 25 minutes overtime) but we survived. There were also a number of musical numbers today. The choir did their best and performed some simple hymn arrangements and another lady sang a solo piece, and even though they weren’t perfect, I always love when there is more music in a meeting. Actually, the Bishop approached me after it ended and coaxed me into maybe singing in 3 weeks. He has been asking me since we moved here, and I decided I may as well bite the bullet and get’er done. haha!! He told me that I could choose what I want to perform, so I’ll have to take a gander through my books and see what I feel like doing. :)

I’m also enjoying church SO much more for a whole new reason… I’ve been called into the Nursery. :) I now get to spend a little over an hour with pretty much the cutest children I have EVER seen. We have snacks, read stories and play with toys. Life is good. I also really like the other Nursery leader. She’s also a young married person so we get along really well!!!

Well, after church I completed my favourite weekend activity: my Sunday nap. Besides the Hubster, I don’t know if there is anything I heart more than my Sunday naps. I curl up on the bed in the sun and sleep for an hour or two to rejuvenate myself for the coming week. It’s FABULOUS. If you are not yet a Sunday napper– I highly recommend it.

When we woke up we prepared our big Easter meal that we decided on… NACHOS. Haha! I had thought about preparing some big to-do, but we didn’t really feel like it. Too Kool is coming up next weekend and I’ll cook a nice meal then. Nachos were more fun anyway. :) Oh, and the Hubster is amazing and didn’t forget Easter after all!! I came out of the shower this morning to find a beautiful card on my desk. The Hubs always writes me long, wonderful messages in them and this one was no exception. I really did marry an amazing man. Hubs, I heart you!! xo

And so that brings me to tonight. I just spent the last 2 hours working on my French presentation (which took me SO much longer than I expected) and now I’m procrastinating my essay. This will hopefully be the 3rd last essay that I will EVER write in my undergraduate career… keep your fingers crossed! I’ve been trying not to make a big deal about it because I have this awful feeling that I won’t get in, but I find out about teacher’s college in about 2 weeks. It’s really up in the air because I have a fabulous portfolio of experience, but my marks aren’t great because I hate my program and have zero motivation to do it / cannot figure out what my professors want from me. *sigh*

Anyway, I should probably get started. I hope you all had a wonderful holiday and ate WAY too much chocolate… I plan to go buy out the store as soon as it’s all on sale on Tuesday. :)

Happy Easter!!

Shop Girl*

Easter*

I’m currently attempting to write a short presentation about Niger for my French class and have absolutely no motivation to begin. So instead, I came here.

I’ve been thinking quite a bit about Easter today. I’m really missing my family (I haven’t seen them in 3 months and that’s quite a marathon for me) and this is the first year that we didn’t travel to be with family, either his or mine. Universities apparently don’t care about religious holidays and as a result do not mark Easter Monday as one, so it makes traveling anywhere difficult. This year it was impossible as the Hubs had a group meeting on Friday and it just wasn’t worth it to go somewhere for just one night.

I guess I almost feel like I’m not celebrating it this year. We both forgot to engage in the secular aspects of the holiday and buy each other mountains of chocolate, and although I hope to enjoy church tomorrow, because it’s just the two of us I doubt we’ll feel like making a big mess in the kitchen to have a big fancy Easter meal. And then Monday begins, and Easter is over. I always loved Easter, and this year I kind of feel like we skipped it because it’s been so busy. It’s also always nice to visit either his or my parent’s wards because they are double the size and the services are usually wonderful. I’m interested to see what our eccentric ward with come up with! haha!

Aside from that, it’s been an uneventful weekend thus far. Yesterday we went to the school to do some work, and today ventured out only to grab a few groceries. I’ve done a bit of cleaning, a bit of homework, and lot of watching of Holocaust documentaries. I wish so much that I could have taken an entire course load in modern German history as it is the FIRST subject that I have ever really connected with, but, c’est la vie! Two more weeks until I can (hopefully) walk away from it all and finish my majors that I have absolutely NO interest in whatsoever. I never should have been an English / History major, but it’s a little late to change that now! haha

Tonight I’m feeling rather… melancholy, I suppose. I long for change. I know it’s coming, but I guess I feel like it’s not coming soon enough! In any case, I hope you all have a wonderful Easter with your families / friends and spend a moment reflecting on the reason we celebrate this holiday.

Much love,
Shop Girl*

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