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Looking Back: 2011*

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New Year’s Eve.

I distinctly remember feeling flabbergasted that 2010 was ending last year, and I feel the same way about 2011 tonight. This past year has been an absolute blur.

At the beginning of the month my book club hosted its annual Cookie Exchange. Last year we read The Christmas Cookie Club by Ann Pearlman and we fell in love with the concept. Instead of just exchanging cookies, you are supposed to choose a recipe that reflects the year you’ve had in some way. As I began to look back on 2011, I realized that this year has been full of unexpected, but happy changes. Here are just a few:

*Finding my niche at work and working steady weeks at my favourite schools
*Celebrating our 6th wedding anniversay
*Writing in my blog every day until the end of May
*Meeting my handsome nephew Hugh
*Buying our first home
*Seeing the Mormon Tabernacle Choir, CCR & Colm Wilkinson
*Completing another Additional Qualification course (Communication: Autism)
*Completing a full year with my Book Club
*Buying our truck
*Visiting with the Hubster’s Mom & Dad
*Getting my first “LTO” (extended supply work for 5.5 weeks) at my dream school

…and of course, the appearance of the wee-bean in my belly. :)

If you had told me in January that in the next 12 months we’d purchase our home, a second vehicle, get my dream job and find out that I was pregnant, I would have probably laughed in your face.

There’s no way all that could possibly happen in a year.

…but then it did.

It has been a glorious, busy, full year. It absolutely flew by and I have a sneaking suspicion that 2012 will do the same. Much of the last 7 months have been spent working on our house–here’s a quick look at some of the projects the Hubster has been working on:

Our House*
1) We completely ripped out our back yard, added soil and reseeded it. It involved ripping out two small trees and raking in an enormous mountain of soil.
2) We turned our jungle of a front lawn into the nicest lawn on the street.
3) The Hubster built a new, beautiful deck.
4) He also added loft storage in our garage, sealed the floor and insulated an exterior wall.
5) He added a storm door to the front, which included building a new door frame to hold it.
6) New faucet in my powder room.
7) Our quirky house had no overhead lighting in any of the upstairs bedrooms, so he wired and installed three lovely new ceiling fans.
8) We had five new windows and new patio doors installed.
9) We ran cables through the walls and attic so that we can now have internet and cable/antennae TV in every room in the house.
10) He wired in a new (proper) bathroom light fixture.
11) We replaced the fan and stove range hood when we discovered a family of birds living in the pipe.
12) We weren’t happy with the location of the hose hookup outside, so he plumbed in two new locations for it.
13) He also put in plumbing for our lovely new dishwasher, and is in the process of finishing the cabinet for it.
14) He installed a fabulous new garage door (with the help of some fabulous neighbours).
15) And then there’s our basement. In the last two months we’ve been framing, insulating, plumbing and electrical-ing and our basement is now beginning to take shape as a livable space. In the next few weeks we hope to see the insulation finished and have our electrical inspection, then it’s time to drywall and add the floor.

…all this while still working full-time, and you know, growing a wee-bean.

To say that our house has kept us (read: him) busy is an understatement, but we’ve had some amazing help from family and friends. I try to help where I can, but in my large and in charge state I make a much better supervisor than work assistant. :)

The baby threw our house timetable into light speed, and I hope that once our basement is finished we’ll be able to slow things down a little.

Just rereading everything that happened this year makes my jaw drop a little–it just goes to show that you can never really know what the future holds for you. Even as I thought my year was a full as can be in December, I got a phone call that changed everything and gave me the teaching experience that I so desperately wanted before I go on maternity leave.

It’s been a wonderful year. Each day I wake up and am so grateful for all the blessings I have in my life. I am married to my best friend, and our relationship continues to grow and get stronger with each passing year. I am so excited to embark on the adventure of parenthood with my Hubster as I know he is going to be an amazing father.

I have the best family. Seriously. We are far from perfect, but I think that’s what I love most about us. Each of my siblings is so different, and yet we all just love being together. My parents are so supportive and continue to get “cooler” as I get older. (haha!) Also, I have the cutest niece and nephew in the world. Period.

We know the greatest people. This year has shown me exactly how blessed we are to know the people we do. There have been so many acts of kindness thrown our way this year that I wouldn’t even know where to begin to list them or express my gratitude. Between friends of the Hubster who have put in countless hours helping him with projects around the house, to my oh-so-lovely book club girls, to our amazing down-the-street neighbours who we’ve come to think of as family, we really do have an incredible circle of friends.

So, for me, if 2012 contains even a smidgen of the awesomeness that was 2011, it’s going to be an incredible year.

Bring it on.

 

The Job* (Part 2)

Well, as I left my last job post at an awkward place I thought I should probably begin my holiday post schedule with details on where I’ve been all month!

I mentioned in my last post that I received the call for the job at 8pm on a Thursday night, and I started work the next morning. I didn’t really know what to expect, but as I have done other short-term extended supply work before I assumed it would be similar. In those situations, I was basically just a proxy for the regular teacher–a licensed teacher in the room for legal purposes. In every other scenario I’ve been in, I either had lesson plans pre-made for me, or I was given the materials and I just worked with what I had. I was still able to communicate with the teacher, and all marking went home to them–not with me.

This time? Not so much.

I walked in at my regular time on Friday morning to find utter chaos on this man’s desk. Not only were there no instructions or plans, I couldn’t even piece together what the previous supply teachers had done as no one had left any coherent notes.

Another teacher in the department came into the room seconds later and looked from me to the pile on the desk and just began apologizing. He quickly told me that this teacher had already been out for two weeks, not one, and that I was the fourth supply teacher to come in during that time.

*face palm*

Oh, and that he had absolutely no idea what the kids had been doing for the last 2 – 3 weeks. No one did. He handed me a pile of photocopied ISU (Independent Study Unit) handouts for my classes as a peace offering, then told me just to take the day to talk to the kids and figure out where they were. He guessed that my two periods of Grade  9 English were somewhere in Romeo and Juliet, and that my Grade 10 English class might be just finishing To Kill a Mockingbird. He then apologized again and hurried off to prep for his own classes.

I looked at the clock–8:25am. I had 15 minutes to try and plan out my day. I quickly shuffled through the mess of attendance sheets, handouts and marking that littered the desk looking for something that I could use as a guide, but the most detailed notes I found were “Great day. No problems.” left from a teacher three days previous. Feeling wholly unprepared and a little nervous, I made my way over to the classroom to begin the day.

As the bell rang for each class, it quickly became apparent that these kids had ruled their classroom for the last two weeks. There was no semblance of a seating plan, they had forgotten all concept of  listening when the teacher was speaking, and most were blatantly sitting & texting on their cell phones while I explained their new situation. One kid even sat down with a bucket of greasy chicken and ate his lunch in the middle of my class.

I quickly made a decision: deal with the lessons first, and the behaviors second.

In each class I explained to the kids that I was going to be their new teacher until the end of the semester. As I had been in with these classes before they all knew me and (for the moment) were okay with the decision. As I began to piece together what they had been doing for the last two weeks I learned that they had basically been a complete waste. My Grade 9s were indeed in their Romeo and Juliet unit, but when I asked them to show me where they were in the play in their books, they all looked at me blankly. A few began offering plot points to me, which raised my first red alarm. So, I asked:

“How have you been studying the play so far?”

My heart sank a little when a student told me that they had been watching not one, but two versions of the film, and that they were in different places in each movie. I’m trying hard not to judge, but the teacher before me (who claimed to be an English teacher) decided that it would be easier to show not one, but two versions to take up some time. So, my kids knew all about Leonardo Dicaprio and basic plot points, but when I asked them about themes, language, and literary devices they all looked at me like I had grown a second head. I immediately made them all take out their books and we began backtracking and learning how to read Shakespeare as this was their first time ever being exposed to it.

My grade 10 class was no better. They had indeed finished their To Kill a Mockingbird unit… two weeks ago. They should have been well into their Shakespeare unit, but instead had spent two weeks fiddling around with their essays for TKAM… which were still no where near done when I arrived. I told them that they had until Monday to get it in to me. Period. They too were used to running the room and I knew I’d have to do a major overhaul come Monday morning.

At the end of the day I wearily sank into my chair and realized the extent of what I had signed up for. In all my classes, the ISU units had not even been introduced, let alone started. I was basically starting at square one with all three Shakepseare units.

…and there were only 5.5 teaching weeks until the exam.

To say I was stressed is an understatement. I already knew that the first two weekends in December were booked–my aunt was visiting the same night I started working and I had book club on the first weekend, and the Hubster’s mom flew in to see us the next.

…and then I discovered the marking. I wasn’t told what happened to the teacher I replaced, and I still don’t have a clue. All I know is that he basically had to drop everything to take a leave of absence, and that no one is really in contact with him. If ever I absolutely need something, I have to go to my department head who then makes arrangements to get in touch with this man. On my second day there, my grade 9s asked me when they would be getting their essays back.

…essays?

I soon found out that they had handed in essays to their teacher, who had taken them with him (unmarked) when he left. This is another story all in itself, but by day three I had three sets of class essays to mark that I hadn’t assigned… along with  a pile of other things that had been left or collected in his absence.

As far as the behaviors go, I laid down the new laws on day two. No more cell phones in class. Period. If I’m talking / teaching, they are not. Only healthy snacks in my classroom. And new seating plans… glorious new seating plans. I didn’t win many friends that day, but I did begin to see their respect. I also abandoned the films for Romeo and Juliet, much to their dismay. We backtracked through the first two acts, then began reading the play in Act III. The poor kids had no idea how to navigate through the language, and as they continued to ask every day when we’d be watching the movies again, I let them know that the films were there to help them understand after reading, not before.

Besides, they had already seen most of them anyway. *sigh*

I’ve now been teaching for three weeks, and I’m just beginning to feel like I’m getting my bearings. I’m still very nervous for January as I have no idea how I’m going to fit everything in before the exam, but I know I can handle it. The hard part is knowing that those two weeks before I came in were just… wasted. Each week is precious in teaching time, and now I know I have to really push the kids just to make sure they have what they need to be successful on their exam.

So, I’m still muddling through things as I figure everything out, and new surprises crop up every other day. On my first “official” day of the assignment, I learned that I also had caf duty for the week and a staff meeting. My department has been wonderful though, and my department head continues to reassure me that I’m doing a good job and helps me in whatever way he can.

Do I regret taking the assignment? No. I wish I had known exactly what I was walking into when I started, but I still love this school with all my heart. My only reservation is that in less than a week I’ll be 9 months pregnant and the countdown to my due date will really be on.I just didn’t expect this kind of work this late in my pregnancy–I mean, really now, I was 8 months pregnant when I was offered the job. I was so sure that I’d be on daily supply until my maternity leave that I boxed up all my teaching books and sold my desk.

(The Hubster loves that I have since completely taken over our kitchen table with piles of marking and prep work. ha.)

It just goes to show that you can never really know when an amazing teaching opportunity will pop up. I am thrilled that I’m able to have this experience before I venture into motherhood… it’s just stressful knowing that I am now responsible for whether or not these kids pass or fail.  I feel like I have so little time to teach them what they need.

But, such is life. So, I take each day at a time and hope for the best.

And hope that this little wee-bean likes my belly enough to stay in there until the job ends on January 31st!

34 Weeks* (and a promise)

My, my, my. December 29th already? I’m not sure how the last 4 weeks got away from me, but somehow it’s almost January… the month before we meet the wee-bean. To those of you who are sick of just hearing about my pregnancy updates–I’m so sorry. I really didn’t mean to let my writing slip to just once a week, it’s just been so insane lately. I wish I could commit to daily writing like I was at the beginning of last year, but between the new job and wee-bean preparations I just can’t do it.

…but I can promise to write every day for the rest of my holidays! So. Today I need to get my weekly preggo post out of the way, then from tomorrow – January 8th I promise to tell you all the other glorious details of what’s been happening around here. Deal? Good.

How Far Along: 34 Weeks*
Size of Baby: A Cantaloupe
Weight Gain: 24 pounds

Movement: I have a little tiny dancer inside me. Every day I notice her movements become more pronounced and I can see my belly move as she does. Occasionally she’ll give me a good kick that makes me gasp out in surprise, but for the most part she just twirls and dances around.

She has the hiccups at least once every day. I woke up at 6:30 this morning and felt the tiny rhythm against my skin, though she usually gets the every day around 7pm. I was a bit worried by how often she gets them, but apparently it’s quite normal. I’m going to ask my midwife about it today.

Cravings: My mom’s baking. Oh Christmas–there were just so many good things to eat! Also, today I wanted ribs.

Food Aversions: Sadly, McDonalds. I had some on Tuesday and it grossed me out. I heart McDonalds, so this makes me sad.

Symptoms: As I get further along in my pregnancy, my little wee-bean is slowly becoming less little. Each week she grows and there is less and less space in my belly for her, so she wiggles into positions that are more comfortable for her. Sadly, this sometimes means it is less comfortable for me. The other night my family was all hanging out in my parent’s living room trying to encourage Pingo to use her new kareoke machine that Doodle bought her for Christmas. We were all taking turns singing into the mic, and I chose the “ABC” song when it came to me. I was more focused on watching her than what I was saying, so I didn’t even notice when I sang out “…LMNOG!”, instead of “P”. Everyone started laughing hysterically–myself included–until that changed into tears three seconds later. When I started laughing the wee-bean was up in my ribs and the force of such a hard laugh pushed her into my ribs and I felt like they were going to break open. It hurt SO much. So, I started bawling and ruined the moment. Apparently only sad things for me until she is born. haha

I still experience lots of heartburn, and I now sleep propped up on two pillows. I can still sleep well if I take two Tums right before I go to bed, but I occasionally wake up and feel like I’m going to be sick.

I also can’t make it through the night without using the bathroom anymore. I’m usually up once–sometimes twice–but I can almost always get back to sleep after.

On a happy note, still no stretch marks! (yet.)

Belly Button Watch: Still an inny, but it’s tiny!

Baby Prep: My family threw me a beautiful shower on Boxing day, and we were able to get a few more things that we needed for the wee-bean. If she poops we are now prepared with diapers, wipes and a change mat. haha!

As I type the Hubster is downstairs insulating and putting up the vapor-barrier in our basement. We are slowly inching towards moving his office down, we just aren’t quite ready to pick out baby paint yet!

We also went this morning to register at the hospital. I am now in the system and can just go in to have the baby at any time should she decide to make her grand appearance. We are going to take a tour of the labor and delivery wing in two weeks.

Contraction Watch: Nothing yet, at least that I can feel. My midwife tells me that I could start feeling Braxton Hicks contractions at any time as my body prepares for labor, but so far so good. :)

Things I’m Thinking About: I love holidays. I have been off work since Friday at 1pm and it has been glorious. I finally feel like I’ve caught up on sleep and I’m very excited to have some time to get the wee-bean’s things organized before the madness of January’s exam prep takes over my life.

I’d like to pack my hospital bag this week. I know I’m still 6 weeks away, but it’s just been on my mind and I’d like to have something ready and prepared in case we need it.

On that note, when did you put the car seat in your vehicle? I’ve had people tell me to do it a few weeks before the due date, and other say that they didn’t bother until labor started. Thoughts?

I need a diaper bag. I think I’d prefer a stylish black tote bag that both the Hubster and I could use. Where does one shop for such an item?

It dawned on me over the weekend that there are just six tiny weeks left until she’s here. Actually, if you want to get technical, I’m down to five and a half if she’s on time. After my appointment today, I only have one more biweekly appointment with my midwife before it switches to the weekly schedule. Holy crap.

It’s officially winter in Pretty City. It’s a good thing we have some pretty cute snow suits for the wee-bean when she arrives. :)

33 Weeks*

How Far Along: 33 Weeks*
Size of Baby: A Pineapple
Weight Gain: 22 pounds

Movement: All. the. time. She loves to move, and thankfully she’s still small enough that it doesn’t bother me at all–in fact, I absolutely love it. There have been a few times when she has wiggled into my ribs and that has been a little uncomfortable, but as she moves so much she never stays in one place for long and usually settles back into a more comfortable position.

She’s had the hiccups a few more times since my last post, usually in the middle of the night. Now that I know what it is it’s much easier for me to ignore it and settle back to sleep if it wakes me up.

Lastly, today she did a move that made me laugh out loud–I was lying on my bed and it felt just like she did a ninja kick inside me. Picture the kind of kick someone would do if they jumped in the air and shouted “HI-YA!” as they did it. It felt just like that. haha

Cravings: I don’t know that I had any this week! Work has been so busy I haven’t really had time to even think about food. I just shoveled in whatever was close by.

Food Aversions: Again, too busy. I will eat whatever is easy and fast.

Symptoms: It’s getting a bit harder to sleep, but it has nothing to do with the changes to my body. I have to wait until I am absolutely exhausted before I try going to sleep or else my brain turns back on and I am up forever trying to fall asleep. It’s like I have a constant laundry list of things to do running through my head. Thank you, new job.

I’m noticing my heart burn is attacking at different times of day now. Before it was basically limited to right before I went to bed, but now I find it’s creeping up on me by noon. Thankfully it’s still easily deflected by eating some kind of dairy product or taking a Tums.

I have a hard time sitting in straight backed chairs these days. Actually, I have a hard time sitting in any one place for very long. My belly needs lots of space and prefers to recline. haha!

Belly Button Watch: Still an inny! YAY

Baby Prep: The Hubster is busy insulating our basement, so we are inching ever closer to being able to move the office down there! Aside from that, this holiday will be spent doing everything I can to get things ready. Once I go back to work I’m in full-on exam mode and I know there won’t be time.

Things I’m Thinking About: I need this holiday. Words cannot express how excited I am to be able to have two weeks off to catch up. My house is a disaster, I’m years behind in my marking, and I feel so unprepared for the baby. I am thrilled to have a bit of time to catch my breath and get up to speed.

On that same note, Christmas is in TWO DAYS. How did this happen? Isn’t it like… December 3rd?

I’m running out of clothes that fit. Time to go thrifting? I think yes.

The Hubster loves me. A lot. I came home this week and found a new dishwasher in my living room, and it was installed and running beautifully after just a couple of minor hiccups. This may not sound like anything exciting, but in our 6.5 years of marriage, we have never had a dishwasher. I can now go to sleep at night and not feel guilty that we didn’t have time to do the dishes, as our lovely, lovely dishwasher is doing them for us. :)

My belly feels huge. Sometimes I almost forget that I’m pregnant and then I look down in utter disbelief. Our lovely little wee-bean is coming so soon. By the time I go back to work her due date will be less than a month away. Where has the time gone?

Lastly, we have the best down the street neighbours in the world. :)

The Job* (Part 1)

I have been happily supply teaching in my school board for the last year and a half.

I somehow lucked into a perfect position where I was primarily back and forth between my two favourite schools, and 90% of my work calls were made days in advance. I often worked 3.5 – 4 days a week which was perfect for me, especially now in my large and pregnant state.

If I’m being perfectly honest, I loved life as a supply teacher so much that I had moments where I wasn’t even sure if I wanted a full-time position. My lessons were always created and prepped for me, there was no marking, and each day I left before 3pm and had my evenings completely free.

But there is one school in my board that I knew I would never turn down. It’s my happy place–my “Cinderella” school. You see, for me supply teaching is a bit like shoe shopping. I get to walk in and “try on” different schools to see if it’s a good fit. There are many schools that I love going to, and many that I would absolutely dread spending even half a day at.

And then there’s MDS: My Dream School. In my first few months of supply teaching I was getting calls all over my board as no one school knew who I was yet. As I slowly ticked all the high schools off my list, I realized that there were only a few schools that I had yet to be called to, and MDS was one of them.  I had worked almost 6 months before I got my first call there, and as soon as I walked through the doors I had my Cinderella moment: it was a perfect fit. It was like that moment when the prince’s attendant finally slides the glass slipper onto Cinderella’s foot and it fits so perfectly–this school and I fit together the same way.

After that first random call, I began to be requested there on a regular basis, to the point where I would spend full weeks there just hopping between departments and teachers. I got to know the English department very well, and was often specifically requested by the department head.

This fall has been no different. Early on in the semester I began to be requested at MDS again, and loved spending every moment there. As the wee-bean continued to grow and I began to feel the effects of my second and third trimester, I was very grateful to be supply teaching as the work load was very light. Aside from a few random calls to schools I don’t often go to, I spent a lot of time at my lovely MDS.

On Monday, November 28th I woke up early as I hadn’t yet received a call from dispatch for work. I went through the motions to get ready, and when my phone did ring shortly after 7am with a call to go spend the day at my second favourite school, I happily accepted. This school is right around the corner from me and has the latest start time in my board, so I enjoyed a leisurely breakfast and took my time getting ready.

Shortly before 8am my phone rang again. I didn’t recognize the number, but I answered it anyway. I was shocked to find the  secretary at MDS on the other end. Our conversation went something like this:

Gina: “Hi Shop Girl! Sorry to call you at home, but did you receive a call from dispatch this morning?”

Me: “I did, but it was for another school. Why?”

Gina: “Oh, that makes me SO mad!  Did they even tell you about the request I put in for you?”

Me: “No… what request?”

(I should mention that our school board is one of the few boards in the province that still has real people calling from dispatch. We’re not automated yet.)

Gina: “I put in a request to have you come in and work all week for Mr. S. He’s quite ill and is out all week. I can’t understand why they didn’t give it to you, as soon as I saw he was out I knew you’d be perfect for it as his kids already know you. There’s something weird going on here. I’m going to get the principal to look into it.”

So, I immediately begin trying to find a way to get the assignment, but she let me know that it had already been filled by someone she had never had into the school before. She apologized for the mix-up and promised to figure out what happened before letting me go.

To say I was upset would be putting things mildly. I was mad that I had missed out on a full week of work at my favourite school, and I was furious at dispatch for not even telling me about it. I went to off to work in a rather foul mood.

I was able to put it out of my head as the week progressed, and my second favourite school actually kept me incredibly busy. I worked every day, and on Wednesday night my phone rang again. Dispatch called and let me know that I had been requested to work at MDS on Friday–in for the same teacher I had previously been requested for. I thought it was a bit odd as the original assignment had been for a full week and it had been filled by someone else, but I happily accepted.

While I was working at another school on Thursday, Gina called and left a message on my cell asking if I could tentatively leave Monday open as well as they weren’t sure when this teacher (Mr. S) would be returning. It meant turning down a job at my second favourite school, but I was happy to do it.

That night (December 1st) I went home and was puttering around my house like I always do. I was sitting at my computer when my phone rang shortly after 8pm. It was dispatch again.

Dispatch: “Hi Shop Girl, I have a request for you at MDS.”

Me: “Oh, great!”

Dispatch: “I’m sure you already know this, but you’ve been requested to cover for Mr. S at MDS from December 2nd – January 31st.”

Me: “…pardon me? Did I hear that correctly??”

Dispatch: “Oh! I guess they haven’t spoken with you yet. They’d like you to come in for this teacher until the end of the semester. Will you accept the assignment?”

Me (absolutely flabbergasted): “Oh course! Thank you!!”

I hung up and sat at the table staring at my phone for a moment before I dashed off to find the Hubster. We were both floored by what had just happened, but I was beyond excited. I wasn’t sure how it was going to work, but I had just been handed a two-month position at my all-time favourite school, and I started the next day.

After the initial rush of excitement died down a little, I realized that this job was going to take me very close to my due date, with just a 5-day window. It worried me a little, but I knew everything would work out. I was just dying for details.

So, the next morning I woke up early, packed my teacher bag and headed off to work.

I had absolutely no idea what I was walking in to…

 

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